This is Holly, age five. She is the youngest daughter of friends Randy and Kristina. Hollys brother and sister
are only two or three years older, but at this age, thats a lifetime. Her siblings are off playing with other, older
kids, doing older-kid things. Holly tends to keep to herself.
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It seems to me she likes it that way. Shes building a sand sculpture here, which requires water from the lake.
I watch her skip joyously down to the water and back again ... in her own world, oblivious to anyone around her,
and thrilled to be doing it. All the while, shes talking to herself. Talking typically requires the co-operation of a
second party, but Holly takes on that role, too.
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Every now and then, she lifts her head and reconnects with the world. Ive even seen her come over and skirt the
edge of the others play. Shell occasionally get in their way on purpose, a bit, just to make them pay her some
attention, but she really wants no part of what theyre doing. Shes just there, making sure shes not missing
anything, and then its off, back to the solitude of Hollyworld, where shes the boss. Mark Heine
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